The Dark Side of Our Dreams
by : ELIZA MARIANA
Every night we close our eyes and set off on a mysterious journey that takes us away from the physical world into a different realm. This new dimension, this special segment of reality functions according to its own rules. It has no solid borders and is often as slippery as an icy path in winter. If we try to grasp it, it runs through our fingers like water. The images are sometimes blurred and the sensations go beyond our power of expression. Yet this world has important lessons to teach us. God wouldn’t have given us the ability to dream if he hadn’t thought it was important.
When we begin our journey, we don’t know where the path is going to lead us. The diversity of dream imagery is endless, its potential enormous. The only limit is our imagination and we can never know for sure just how far it can take us. A dream can be the most fulfilling experience or it can lead to agonizing terror. Why do people’s dreams go to such extremes? Where do our nightmares come from and what can we do to stop them?Nightmares are very vivid dreams that provoke anguish and terror. The tension gradually increases until the dreamer can’t take it anymore and wakes up. Nightmares are usually accompanied by physical reactions, such as sweating, an accelerated pulse, the sensation of choking, etc. These symptoms may persist for a while after the dream ends.
The origin of the term goes back a long way in history. In the old times, people used to think bad dreams were caused by a species of demons called 'incubi', which were thought to sit on the chests of the sleepers. In Old English the name for these beings was 'mare', hence comes the word 'nightmare'.
Evidently, the modern explanation has little to do with the mischievous incubi. From a psychological point of view, nightmares are a signal that somewhere, deep inside our mind, there's something that tries to grab our attention. Our subconscious is a place we don’t normally have direct access to. However, things buried in there are constantly knocking at the gate of our conscious mind, trying to break through to the surface. When we block them, they don’t give up but seek another way to make their voice heard. Dreams are a good opportunity for them to do that.
We are, more or less, what we dream. If we are tormented by worries, fears and regrets, all these will be reflected in our dreams. Even old traumas we thought we had got rid of can come back to haunt us in our sleep. People who experience recurring nightmares usually have one or more unsolved issues in their life. These might be phobias, regrets, obsessions or traumas. Their subconscious tries to warn them by sending repeated messages, just like the alarm mechanism of an electrical device. After the issue is solved, the nightmares stop.
To clear the symptoms, one needs to treat the disease. To get rid of the unwanted effects, one needs to identify the cause and eliminate it. So don't let your nightmares scare you. Rather than seeing them as your enemies, treat them as your friends, as messengers from your subconscious. Don’t ignore them, as they will keep crying for your attention until you stop and listen to what they have to say. Their presence is a sign that it’s time to look for some answers deep inside. And as you do, keep in mind Nietzsche’s famous words, “Whatever doesn’t kill us makes us stronger.”
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